Random act of kindness

This past Tuesday driving away from work, I’m thinking about all the things I want to get done with my upcoming days off, when I notice my battery light comes on in the Yota.  Now, being that this is a brand new battery, I’m a little alarmed as to why it’s now coming on. Then, more alarming, smoke starts to boil out from under the hood where the battery sits. Luckily, I was at a stop sign and was able to pull into the nearest parking lot (right beside said stop sign) and cut the car off. This parking lot was to Tony’s Bar. I popped the hood and jumped out, no sooner did a man pull into the same parking lot and jump out of his vehicle (barefoot and all!) to raise the hood and check out what was happening.  To be completely honest, I popped the hood but was a little terrified to stick my hand under there to raise it because all I could think was ‘what if there are flames under there?’!  As this stranger gets the hood raised we both watch as the starter cable connected to the battery literally melts away from the battery!!  Well, I’m not driving her now is the first thing that came to mind.  I figured I had better see if anyone was at the bar to ask if it was ok to leave the car there until I could get it towed home.  Then the second thing I thought was, man it’s hot out here.  It was nineteen million degrees south of hellfire in the temperatures this day and I was already starting to swelt (combination of sweating and melting). My hair had begun to be worn as a scarf and I’m pretty sure my lashes were barely clinging to the stray hair that swept in front of my face.  So, with my beautiful swelting self I walked up to the side gate of this bar to see if anyone was there.  I see a gentlemen standing at the back of the bar area on his phone. “Excuse me sir!”, I said a few times before he finally heard me.  He walked up and I explained what happened to the car and asked if it was ok for me to leave it there for just a short time. He said, “it’s no problem ma’am but I do appreciate you asking”.  He then invited me in to stand by the big ole fan he had out there and wait until help came. He was such a nice man, I looked at him and said, “well, Tony, God decided for us to meet today so let’s find out why.”  For the next hour, I was blessed to get to know a little bit about Tony. He has owned that bar for 35 years and I believe just about every year he has held a poker run for Holy Angles in Belmont, North Carolina.  He told me the story of how it has blessed his heart to be able to raise money for this organization every year but sadly this would be the first year he wouldn’t be able to because of COVID-19.  Here this 65 year old man stood telling me about how much he has loved doing this event so much he designs a new T-shirt for the event himself every year.  He then gave me a tour of his bar, offered me a bottle of water several times, and stood and chatted with me, a swelting mess of a woman, and even took a look at the car for me. One moment when he pulled that battery cable up and touched it to the battery it sparked in his hand and I thought this man was gonna get shocked and die right there in his own parking lot. I know it’s not that much voltage now but I am also the person who once when I heard the boss couldn’t eat for 36 hours I shouted “you can’t eat for THREE days?”  The looks I got on that one we’re nevertheless along the lines of ‘that black hair must be a dye job’!  

  To end our chance meeting he even called a tow service that is owned by a friend of his and assured me the car would be safe there until they got there to tow it. I guess I could have seen the car breaking down as a bad thing and been upset but instead I believe it was meant to happen and for a reason beyond my knowing. I was trying to think of a way to repay this mans kindness he showed to me that evening so I have donated $50 to Holy Angles and if anyone reading this is looking for an act of kindness to share in I hope this can be it.   I will forever be grateful for this Tony and his kindness that hot September evening after work!  So Let’s all try to be a Tony (kind, compassionate, and friendly) when encountering strangers in our daily lives! 

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